How To Speak To Someone With Dementia: Kindness, Patience & Connection

Did you know there are currently over 850,000 people living with dementia in the UK? Even more striking is that 48% of these individuals live with three or more additional health conditions. Dementia affects memory, thinking, and communication, making everyday conversations more challenging, both for those living with the condition and their loved ones.

At No Place Like Home Midlands, we believe that people with dementia deserve to age with dignity, familiarity, and love… ideally in the comfort and security of their own homes. Maintaining meaningful communication is not just possible, it’s essential for their emotional wellbeing. Here’s how you can make those moments count:

1. Be Present & Patient

It can take someone with dementia a little longer to respond, so give them time. Avoid rushing, correcting, or finishing their sentences. A calm and unhurried environment allows for better communication and reduces frustration.

2. Use Simple, Clear Language

Speak slowly and clearly, using short, simple sentences. Avoid jargon, and give instructions one step at a time. This helps the person follow what you’re saying without feeling overwhelmed.

3. Engage Non-Verbally

Communication isn’t just about words. Facial expressions, gestures, and tone of voice can all offer reassurance and clarity. Eye contact and a gentle smile can make someone feel understood and supported.

4. Minimise Distractions

Background noise, TV, or a busy room can make it harder to focus. Try to have conversations in a quiet, familiar space where both of you can feel comfortable and connected.

5. Focus on Feelings, Not Just Facts

Sometimes, the words might not make perfect sense—but the emotion behind them matters. If a loved one is upset or confused, acknowledge how they feel and offer reassurance, even if you’re unsure of the cause.

Why Familiarity Matters

Remaining in a familiar home environment can help slow the progression of confusion, reduce distress, and promote a sense of safety. For someone with dementia, even small routines like having their favourite mug or hearing familiar music can spark comfort and joy.

At No Place Like Home Midlands, we provide compassionate, one-to-one care designed around the individual’s unique needs, preferences, and stage of dementia.

Our Commitment To Quality Dementia Care

All of our care staff receive in-depth training on the different types and stages of dementia, so they’re equipped to adapt care as needs change. We focus on:

• Encouraging independence wherever possible
• Supporting clear communication and understanding
• Helping with eating, drinking, and mealtime routines
• Providing activities that stimulate memory, motor skills, and social connection

We also offer:
✔️ Medication reminders and support
✔️ Companionship that builds confidence and encourages social interaction
✔️ Respite for families – giving you peace of mind and time to rest
✔️ Nutritious meals tailored to taste and health needs
✔️ Engaging activities to promote cognitive and emotional wellbeing
✔️ Tailored routines that respect each individual’s pace and preferences

Dementia doesn’t take away the person, it changes how we need to connect with them. With empathy, patience, and the right support, you can still share beautiful moments of understanding and joy.

Want to learn more about how we can support your loved one at home?

Reach out to No Place Like Home Midlands today.